Tool For Tuesday: The One Percent Wrong Rule.

The Case of the Coffee Spoon: The One Percent Wrong Rule.

The Case of the Coffee Spoon: The One Percent Wrong Rule.

Oh yeah, I was so right. Totally right about what happened. This guy was wrong and I was right.

“One hundred percent right?” my friend Joelle asked me. “You’re sure you are 100 percent right?”

Aw…I had to think about it. I had to admit that I might have been one percent wrong. Yes, maybe I was 99 percent right and 1 percent wrong.

So there you have it. I had to own up to that one percent. I still had to make amends for that one percent wrong, even if the other guy was far wronger (is that a word?) than me.

That is the reason there is a photo of the dirty spoon because my husband Jonny kept telling me not to leave my coffee spoon there. I kept saying, “Yeah, yeah, yeah,” and still forgetting to put it away. I realize that I want other people to change–like NOW–but look how hard it is to change myself!

So I need to practice forgiveness…first for myself…and then for others.

Tool For Tuesday: Make this day part of your best chapter by admitting that one percent where you might be in the wrong. Once we keep an open mind about our own behavior, once we practice honesty, we can forgive others–and ourselves. It ain’t so bad being human.

And while we’re not on the subject. If any of you are in these places, I cordially invite you to come to an event.

Fall Tour Schedule & Appearances for A REMARKABLE KINDNESS

Friday October 30

Temple B’nai Shalom

2050 Broadway

Benton Harbor, MI

7pm

 

Tuesday, November 3

BELDEN LIBRARY

12500 NW Military Hwy. 

San Antonio, TX 78231

7pm

Book Talk & Signing

Wednesday, November 4

The Bookworm

2501 South 90th Street, Suite 111
Omaha, NE 68124

6pm

Book Talk & Signing

 

Thursday, November 5

Kripke Jewish Federation Library

Omaha Jewish Community Center

Omaha, NE

7pm

Book Talk & Signing

 

Monday, November 9

BARNES & NOBLE

101 Jordan Creek Pkwy #12170

West Des Moines, IA 

7pm

Book Talk & Signing

Wednesday, November 11

Jewish Community Center

       585 Progress Ave.

      Munster, IN  46321           

                        7pm

Book Talk & Signing

Thursday, November 12

Books on the Square

471 Angell St.

Providence, RI 02906

4:00PM

Book Talk & Signing

 

Sunday, November 15

Congregation Tifereth Israel

        40 Hill Street

          Glen Cove, NY

                  11AM

Book Talk & Signing

 

Tuesday, November 17

Boca West Country Club

Boca Raton, FL

Authors’ Luncheon

12pm

Book Talk & Signing

Got 90 seconds? Watch the book trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U9PAbb4S2ig

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About dianabletter

Diana Bletter is a writer living in northern Israel whose novel, A Remarkable Kindness, is forthcoming from HarperCollins in August. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Commentary, tabletmag, and other publications. Her first book, The Invisible Thread: A Portrait of Jewish American Women (with photographs by Lori Grinker) was nominated for a National Jewish Book Award.
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5 Responses to Tool For Tuesday: The One Percent Wrong Rule.

  1. Sydneyandboo says:

    Always practice kindness and picking up spoons. Remember, you can pick your friends, pick your nose and always pick up a spoon. I can see Jonny being upset about the spoon. Have you tried playing a round of spoons with him?

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  2. Winning the battle is recognizing when we’re wrong. 🙂 Wow, Diana, you’re going to be one busier woman that usual. It would be great if you were able to tour Canada. All the best and safe travels. 🙂

    • dianabletter says:

      I would love to come to Canada! Maybe…ya never know. Thank you, Tracy. And we need to remind ourselves that we’re allowed to be wrong.

  3. BunKaryudo says:

    Still, only 1% wrongs not too shabby. 🙂

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